Wisdom of the World
“I will . . . lie down in peace . . . for you alone . . .
make me dwell in safety” – Psalm 4:8
Billy Graham says, by
any measure drug and alcohol dependence has become one of our greatest social
problems. The issue isn't just illegal
drugs; many depend on alcohol or over-the-counter or prescription drugs just to
face each day or to get to sleep at night. We are not the masters of our
fate.
We think we control our
lives---but we don't. In an instant life
can radically change---a car accident, a heart attack, a pink slip, a child's
raging fever. Frustrated researchers
conquer one deadly virus, only to discover one even more lethal.
I am not a doctor, of course, and I fully realize some drugs
have a legitimate place under careful medical supervision. But in my experience far too many people turn
first to drugs or alcohol instead of to God.
Rather than face their problems and deal with them (with God’s help),
they use drugs or alcohol to escape.
Opportunities never look as good coming as they do going.
And they wait for no one, so you need to be attentive and grab them. They come
in many forms, and they can come from any direction. But one thing's for
certain: they can be seen and seized only in the present. Whatever has happened
in your life, has happened. And since you can't undo it no matter how hard you
try, wipe the slate clean and go on to what's next. We all make mistakes.
Lastly,
When it comes to choosing friends, Author Dr. Charles Townsend says look for: (1) People
who influence you to be the person God intended. 'As iron sharpens iron,
friends sharpen the minds of each other' (Proverbs 27:17 CEV). Relationships
are the tools God uses to do this. When you're with somebody, ask yourself, 'Do
I like who I am when I'm around this person? Am I more open, loving and honest?
Or do I not like what I see in myself?' Choose people who make you a better
person. (2) People who provide grace for the energy drain. When you're empty you
need to be refuelled physically, spiritually and relationally. So surround
yourself with friends who will listen, encourage and be there for you. (3)
People who let you be real. 'A friend loves at all times' (Proverbs 17:17
NKJV). The best relationships are those where you know you're loved, you're
free to be yourself, you don't have to put on an act and you can be honest
about the difficult aspects of life. There's comfort and normality in
friendships where you can be authentic. (4) People who help you grow in faith.
You need friends who encourage you to pray, read the Bible and help you to see
the 'big picture' concerning what's important in your life.
Blessings,
Raj Kosaraju
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